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POST: Hi, I'm 22, and I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. We recently moved together. We've always loved each other intensely. Problem, I recently started to have feelings for an other person (a friend). This person has had a boyfriend for now 3 years, and has absolutely no ideas. Those feelings were so strong, it was hard to hide them. After 2 months of me being distant and really sad, my girlfriend forced me to say what was bothering me. I'm not a good liar, and now she knows. We decided to give us a week alone, I went to my parents. Now, I'm completely lost. I keep on thinking about this person, and I hate that. I would like for those feelings to go away, to leave me alone. But I can't. What do I do? It's been 3 months now, and I'm just desperate. 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But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it.	Mom had the TV on loud and woke me up, didn't care that I'd respected audio levels in the house, so I countered with playing Gangnam Style on repeat with the bass thumping through the walls.	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POST: She was in her living room, watching TV. This was at about 8:30 in the morning, and she was exercising. She turned the TV up extra loud to hear it over her excercycle, and woke me up. I went in there asking for her to turn it down. She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time. She disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go. If you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. 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She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time. She disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go. If you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it. 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t3_3r7dag	relationships	My girlfriend (20f) of two years cheated on me (20m) by kissing two guys at a Halloween party.	Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties.	My girlfriend kissed two guys at a Halloween party and liked it. We love each other but don't know what to do about it.	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POST: Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties. Two Word TL;DR:	Relationship issues	[ 2752, 19609, 23651, 767, 6068, 387, 247, 30556, 3128, 285, 10490, 352, 15, 844, 2389, 1016, 643, 533, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (20f) of two years cheated on me (20m) by kissing two guys at a Halloween party. POST: Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties. TL;DR: My girlfriend kissed two guys at a Halloween party and liked it. 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t3_2wghd6	running	One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help?	I'll try to keep this short! Background * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) Current Problem I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks!	I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. I'm fairly certain the problem isn't just that I'm completely out of shape.	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Help? POST: I'll try to keep this short! Background * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) Current Problem I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks! Two Word TL;DR:	Post-pregnancy pain	[ 309, 1158, 10438, 43303, 342, 619, 2133, 13, 1024, 309, 476, 626, 1014, 1408, 1014, 253, 8004, 2408, 1293, 3075, 275, 619, 47818, 285, 15746, 15, 50276, 42, 1353, 9648, 2176, 253, 1895, 3548, 626, 816, 326, 309, 1353, 4336, 562, 273, 5281, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	45	SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help? POST: I'll try to keep this short! Background * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) Current Problem I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks! TL;DR: I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. 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t3_2wm48l	tifu	TIFU by getting scared for no reason and peeing on myself	(Pre-apology for formatting errors since i'm on my phone) Well, this was embarrassing and happened a few minutes ago. I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet...	got startled for no reason by a normal dude taking a shit and then pissed on my pants and shirt due to embarrassment and now I have to go shopping in my shame-soaked pants.	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I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet... Two Word TL;DR:	Bathroom mishap	[ 1694, 35954, 323, 642, 1921, 407, 247, 2622, 29723, 3192, 247, 10739, 285, 840, 39309, 327, 619, 19110, 285, 14133, 1955, 281, 36649, 285, 1024, 309, 452, 281, 564, 12701, 275, 619, 14816, 14, 601, 6840, 19110, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	39	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting scared for no reason and peeing on myself POST: (Pre-apology for formatting errors since i'm on my phone) Well, this was embarrassing and happened a few minutes ago. I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet... 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t3_2t47de	tifu	TIFU by staring too much.	Unlike most tifu's I have seen, this happened today. So, to start off I am 16 years old and have started my second semester as a sophomore, in one of my new classes (team sports to be specific) I noticed a very attractive and genuinely cute girl. I have never been on dates or been romantically involved with any girls before, because I have social anxiety and I am pretty chunky and I have confidence problems because of it. Any way, back to the story, I notice this cute girl and I can't help myself and I stare at her then I gain focus and I am focused back on the game. The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile.	Creeped out a girl by staring too long/ too much, thought she might like me, boyfriend or friend or what evs might confront me. I am a huge creep.	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POST: Unlike most tifu's I have seen, this happened today. So, to start off I am 16 years old and have started my second semester as a sophomore, in one of my new classes (team sports to be specific) I noticed a very attractive and genuinely cute girl. I have never been on dates or been romantically involved with any girls before, because I have social anxiety and I am pretty chunky and I have confidence problems because of it. Any way, back to the story, I notice this cute girl and I can't help myself and I stare at her then I gain focus and I am focused back on the game. The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile. 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The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile. TL;DR: Creeped out a girl by staring too long/ too much, thought she might like me, boyfriend or friend or what evs might confront me. 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t3_mjs4m	AskReddit	Reddit, I think our family dog just consumed a significant amount of chocolate. What do I do?	Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do?	I think dog got into chocolate when I was out. My dad isn't concerned but I'm afraid she's going to keel over and die and I don't know what to do.	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What do I do? POST: Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do? Two Word TL;DR:	Chocolate ingestion	[ 309, 1158, 4370, 1694, 715, 14354, 672, 309, 369, 562, 15, 2752, 12247, 3548, 626, 7514, 533, 309, 1353, 9202, 703, 434, 1469, 281, 1058, 293, 689, 285, 3150, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	39	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I think our family dog just consumed a significant amount of chocolate. What do I do? POST: Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do? TL;DR: I think dog got into chocolate when I was out. 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t3_4mcvz0	relationships	Me and my (former) best friend.	I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and 'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post.	I have lost a ~4-year-best friend of mine, who now chooses to ignore me, and I cannot even tell what I have done wrong.	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POST: I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post. Two Word TL;DR:	Friend lost	[ 309, 452, 3663, 247, 5062, 21, 14, 2913, 14, 14461, 3331, 273, 7477, 13, 665, 1024, 28467, 281, 11823, 479, 13, 285, 309, 2550, 1014, 2028, 752, 309, 452, 2218, 3430, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and my (former) best friend. POST: I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post. 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t3_2zu9jn	tifu	TIFU by trying to creatively announce my first pregnancy.	This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby. Within a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers.	I surprised announced to my husband I was pregnant in front of a bunch of a people we really didn't know. Made him and everyone else feel really awkward.	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POST: This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby. Within a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers. 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Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers. TL;DR: I surprised announced to my husband I was pregnant in front of a bunch of a people we really didn't know. 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t3_1xh19y	running	Knee pain due to poor balance	I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT?	Ortho said my knee pain was because I balance like a toddler, cost of PT is too damn high. Can you recommend a DIY balance program?	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My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT? Two Word TL;DR:	Knee pain	[ 20268, 80, 753, 619, 12267, 3075, 369, 984, 309, 6654, 751, 247, 50245, 13, 2105, 273, 10622, 310, 1512, 15229, 1029, 15, 2615, 368, 5583, 247, 45919, 6654, 2086, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	31	SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Knee pain due to poor balance POST: I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT? TL;DR: Ortho said my knee pain was because I balance like a toddler, cost of PT is too damn high. 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t3_33k2x7	relationships	I'm (18M) jealous of other guys flirting with my (18M) girlfriend on social media. Help?	My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective.	I'm a jealous boyfriend and I need help to understand how NOT to be jealous. I don't want the "Oh you should feel LUCKY guys want her!" FUCK THAT.	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Help? POST: My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective. Two Word TL;DR:	Relationship jealousy	[ 309, 1353, 247, 23327, 22273, 285, 309, 878, 1361, 281, 2096, 849, 5803, 281, 320, 23327, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 253, 346, 4013, 368, 943, 1928, 418, 36746, 58, 6068, 971, 617, 1476, 401, 36746, 16093, 15, 209, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	40	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (18M) jealous of other guys flirting with my (18M) girlfriend on social media. Help? POST: My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective. TL;DR: I'm a jealous boyfriend and I need help to understand how NOT to be jealous. I don't want the "Oh you should feel LUCKY guys want her!" 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t3_36g84g	relationships	I [22 F] want to buy my bf [28 M] of 6 months a $500 very rare video game for his collection for his birthday/Christmas. Will a gift of this caliber scare him off/ be considered too much after being laid off from his game dev job?	My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn.	Foster kid boyfriend with Christmas birthday and video game collection. Is it too soon to get him a $500 game for his collection, especially after he has just been laid off from his game dev job?	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Will a gift of this caliber scare him off/ be considered too much after being laid off from his game dev job? POST: My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn. 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He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn. TL;DR: Foster kid boyfriend with Christmas birthday and video game collection. 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t3_2twbfz	relationships	I (16f) don't want my Boyfriend (16m) hanging out with his female friend anymore	My boyfriend's been very close friends with this girl for a few years, and him and I have been dating for a year and a couple months now. I've never had a problem with their friendship and I know that it's platonic, they've never done sexual stuff or dated or anything. And she had a boyfriend throughout out entire relationship, but they broke up last Thursday. Since then she has been trying to talk to my boyfriend more and I'm worried that she wants to do stuff with him. I've hung out with my boyfriend twice since and both times he got several texts from her and she hardly ever used to text him while we've hung out before. And yesterday evening I called him and he was talking to her on the phone. All of a sudden since her boyfriend and her broke up now she's constantly trying to talk to my boyfriend? I think she likes him and I don't want them hanging out anymore, when he said he was talking to her on the other line I told him he's not allowed hanging out with her anymore and he seemed angry at me for saying that. Since that I've apologized and we aren't fighting now but I think he still talks to her. How do you think I could get them to stop their friendship without "telling him what to do"? Do you think that she wants to date him? Or why is she so obsessed with him now that she's single? I'm so upset and I'm worried about what will happen if they hang out with eachother now.	My boyfriend's close female friend and her boyfriend broke up, and now she's trying to talk to my boyfriend more than ever. I don't want them to, but I don't want to seem controlling or make my boyfriend upset.	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I've never had a problem with their friendship and I know that it's platonic, they've never done sexual stuff or dated or anything. And she had a boyfriend throughout out entire relationship, but they broke up last Thursday. Since then she has been trying to talk to my boyfriend more and I'm worried that she wants to do stuff with him. I've hung out with my boyfriend twice since and both times he got several texts from her and she hardly ever used to text him while we've hung out before. And yesterday evening I called him and he was talking to her on the phone. All of a sudden since her boyfriend and her broke up now she's constantly trying to talk to my boyfriend? I think she likes him and I don't want them hanging out anymore, when he said he was talking to her on the other line I told him he's not allowed hanging out with her anymore and he seemed angry at me for saying that. Since that I've apologized and we aren't fighting now but I think he still talks to her. How do you think I could get them to stop their friendship without "telling him what to do"? Do you think that she wants to date him? Or why is she so obsessed with him now that she's single? I'm so upset and I'm worried about what will happen if they hang out with eachother now. Two Word TL;DR:	Jealousy issues	[ 2752, 22273, 434, 2810, 5343, 3331, 285, 617, 22273, 9377, 598, 13, 285, 1024, 703, 434, 2820, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 22273, 625, 685, 2455, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 731, 281, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1646, 10938, 390, 1056, 619, 22273, 14004, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	48	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16f) don't want my Boyfriend (16m) hanging out with his female friend anymore POST: My boyfriend's been very close friends with this girl for a few years, and him and I have been dating for a year and a couple months now. I've never had a problem with their friendship and I know that it's platonic, they've never done sexual stuff or dated or anything. And she had a boyfriend throughout out entire relationship, but they broke up last Thursday. Since then she has been trying to talk to my boyfriend more and I'm worried that she wants to do stuff with him. I've hung out with my boyfriend twice since and both times he got several texts from her and she hardly ever used to text him while we've hung out before. And yesterday evening I called him and he was talking to her on the phone. All of a sudden since her boyfriend and her broke up now she's constantly trying to talk to my boyfriend? I think she likes him and I don't want them hanging out anymore, when he said he was talking to her on the other line I told him he's not allowed hanging out with her anymore and he seemed angry at me for saying that. Since that I've apologized and we aren't fighting now but I think he still talks to her. How do you think I could get them to stop their friendship without "telling him what to do"? Do you think that she wants to date him? Or why is she so obsessed with him now that she's single? I'm so upset and I'm worried about what will happen if they hang out with eachother now. TL;DR: My boyfriend's close female friend and her boyfriend broke up, and now she's trying to talk to my boyfriend more than ever. I don't want them to, but I don't want to seem controlling or make my boyfriend upset.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 1036, 71, 10, 1053, 626, 971, 619, 12143, 8471, 313, 1036, 78, 10, 14203, 562, 342, 521, 5343, 3331, 10542, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 434, 644, 1077, 2810, 3858, 342, 436, 3226, 323, 247, 1643, 1107, 13, 285, 779, 285, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 4564, 2607, 1024, 15, 309, 1849, 1620, 574, 247, 1895, 342, 616, 19429, 285, 309, 871, 326, 352, 434, 26588, 5120, 13, 597, 1849, 1620, 2218, 5615, 5017, 390, 15483, 390, 2712, 15, 1244, 703, 574, 247, 22273, 4768, 562, 2862, 2954, 13, 533, 597, 9377, 598, 1390, 8216, 15, 3932, 840, 703, 556, 644, 2820, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 22273, 625, 285, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 703, 5605, 281, 513, 5017, 342, 779, 15, 309, 1849, 10416, 562, 342, 619, 22273, 7019, 1580, 285, 1097, 2069, 344, 1694, 2067, 17438, 432, 617, 285, 703, 10693, 2455, 908, 281, 2505, 779, 1223, 359, 1849, 10416, 562, 1078, 15, 1244, 11066, 7237, 309, 1925, 779, 285, 344, 369, 5015, 281, 617, 327, 253, 4481, 15, 1876, 273, 247, 5982, 1580, 617, 22273, 285, 617, 9377, 598, 1024, 703, 434, 11485, 2820, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 22273, 32, 309, 1158, 703, 13052, 779, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 731, 14203, 562, 10542, 13, 672, 344, 753, 344, 369, 5015, 281, 617, 327, 253, 643, 1386, 309, 2183, 779, 344, 434, 417, 4136, 14203, 562, 342, 617, 10542, 285, 344, 4455, 11790, 387, 479, 323, 3981, 326, 15, 3932, 326, 309, 1849, 46446, 285, 359, 6403, 626, 8615, 1024, 533, 309, 1158, 344, 1335, 12088, 281, 617, 15, 1359, 513, 368, 1158, 309, 812, 755, 731, 281, 3523, 616, 19429, 1293, 346, 31974, 779, 752, 281, 513, 16296, 3166, 368, 1158, 326, 703, 5605, 281, 3522, 779, 32, 2207, 2139, 310, 703, 594, 35524, 342, 779, 1024, 326, 703, 434, 2014, 32, 309, 1353, 594, 14004, 285, 309, 1353, 11926, 670, 752, 588, 5108, 604, 597, 10913, 562, 342, 1016, 977, 1024, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 22273, 434, 2810, 5343, 3331, 285, 617, 22273, 9377, 598, 13, 285, 1024, 703, 434, 2820, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 22273, 625, 685, 2455, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 731, 281, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1646, 10938, 390, 1056, 619, 22273, 14004, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	402
t3_19zkjr	relationships	My [[22m]] gf [[20]] of six months says things were going too fast and she's not capable of being with anyone right now.	A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. 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POST: A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. (sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated) Two Word TL;DR:	Relationship confusion	[ 703, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 1048, 673, 22273, 281, 320, 342, 479, 13, 359, 574, 247, 1663, 12680, 285, 5211, 2954, 13, 533, 1024, 703, 2296, 703, 5605, 281, 320, 2014, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	32	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [[22m]] gf [[20]] of six months says things were going too fast and she's not capable of being with anyone right now. POST: A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. (sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated) TL;DR: she broke up with her long time boyfriend to be with me, we had a really intense and happy relationship, but now she says she wants to be single<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 8605, 1423, 78, 9502, 305, 71, 8605, 938, 9502, 273, 2800, 2607, 2296, 1841, 497, 1469, 1512, 3809, 285, 703, 434, 417, 7032, 273, 1146, 342, 3780, 987, 1024, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1652, 4114, 15, 309, 1313, 617, 436, 5768, 949, 617, 840, 22273, 8605, 1619, 9502, 273, 767, 1107, 13, 665, 313, 284, 309, 6311, 1996, 10, 4127, 617, 751, 10739, 13, 369, 3839, 33408, 13, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 13, 285, 908, 7217, 327, 617, 15, 1583, 497, 275, 247, 1048, 4181, 2954, 285, 923, 1016, 643, 323, 670, 767, 3618, 1046, 767, 2607, 15, 329, 1643, 3618, 1996, 309, 12470, 617, 689, 323, 619, 14348, 3128, 13, 359, 1694, 281, 871, 1016, 643, 1805, 285, 18236, 3053, 13597, 313, 44666, 521, 896, 326, 310, 481, 32312, 309, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 23737, 616, 2954, 533, 703, 753, 703, 642, 3356, 574, 667, 10450, 323, 779, 285, 616, 2954, 369, 1469, 281, 271, 990, 15, 1500, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 247, 1643, 3618, 1996, 13, 672, 344, 2210, 281, 4143, 617, 15, 187, 187, 6067, 46325, 497, 3965, 12680, 15, 844, 1871, 10913, 562, 1046, 1388, 13, 6947, 954, 273, 1959, 673, 2366, 13, 923, 1016, 643, 2761, 1046, 1388, 285, 5007, 18660, 273, 8169, 1046, 1388, 347, 973, 15, 733, 2210, 281, 247, 1127, 835, 359, 18236, 3053, 3811, 2366, 15, 11376, 247, 1770, 715, 776, 2954, 703, 753, 326, 703, 14528, 479, 15, 309, 2183, 617, 309, 3715, 10450, 323, 617, 347, 973, 15, 844, 3053, 1907, 2825, 417, 594, 1048, 846, 326, 15, 187, 25954, 13, 1841, 497, 1469, 3965, 1175, 323, 690, 673, 13, 1919, 1077, 4102, 13, 672, 253, 4070, 358, 3508, 3408, 3053, 16528, 839, 15, 309, 812, 1928, 4258, 272, 369, 3430, 342, 253, 1039, 703, 14001, 4404, 479, 13, 703, 1646, 69, 8872, 285, 26442, 13, 594, 3063, 309, 1461, 8601, 264, 617, 670, 352, 285, 752, 703, 753, 310, 10323, 326, 703, 11121, 776, 2954, 2210, 1512, 3809, 13, 326, 703, 9193, 3076, 670, 448, 839, 327, 617, 840, 22273, 13, 285, 326, 309, 717, 247, 1270, 5599, 313, 43442, 485, 13, 17497, 13, 18109, 13, 1175, 275, 3722, 13, 37598, 37598, 582, 533, 703, 11121, 752, 703, 3543, 4404, 479, 369, 417, 2389, 533, 21909, 285, 326, 436, 5471, 310, 1024, 4783, 15, 1500, 671, 5393, 326, 703, 434, 908, 281, 1146, 342, 3095, 3012, 5662, 13, 326, 309, 717, 1039, 1512, 1175, 323, 617, 13, 326, 703, 310, 10323, 31257, 273, 18248, 3780, 987, 1024, 285, 3198, 281, 320, 3815, 323, 690, 673, 15, 1500, 1904, 626, 16670, 1146, 342, 479, 275, 253, 2852, 2167, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 513, 6068, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7168, 617, 13, 309, 2389, 617, 15, 187, 187, 9, 84, 5163, 323, 7154, 4383, 13, 352, 434, 417, 619, 7925, 3448, 559, 309, 1353, 247, 2372, 17507, 285, 43287, 10, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 703, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 1048, 673, 22273, 281, 320, 342, 479, 13, 359, 574, 247, 1663, 12680, 285, 5211, 2954, 13, 533, 1024, 703, 2296, 703, 5605, 281, 320, 2014, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	540
t3_1y6k5w	relationships	Me [22m] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1 and a half years, has been having communication and trust errors as of late	Everything in our relationship up until about a month ago was fantastic. We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. Last weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there.	My girlfriend has been texting another man and has seemed more interested in him than in me. At what point should I call it quits before I try and stay to long and end up getting hurt?	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We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. Last weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there. 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She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there. TL;DR: My girlfriend has been texting another man and has seemed more interested in him than in me. At what point should I call it quits before I try and stay to long and end up getting hurt?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1423, 78, 62, 342, 619, 19609, 544, 746, 401, 62, 273, 337, 285, 247, 2716, 1107, 13, 556, 644, 1907, 5511, 285, 4517, 6332, 347, 273, 3563, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 16942, 275, 776, 2954, 598, 1919, 670, 247, 1770, 3622, 369, 15143, 15, 50276, 1231, 1620, 13465, 13, 359, 7192, 1016, 643, 285, 14001, 751, 253, 1682, 84, 273, 3858, 285, 26987, 949, 352, 512, 15, 50276, 24881, 13, 309, 2427, 896, 281, 2143, 285, 776, 5511, 556, 644, 247, 2372, 37007, 13, 1580, 309, 1904, 626, 513, 594, 973, 275, 1390, 33644, 285, 452, 644, 13654, 625, 327, 619, 2175, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 8693, 8849, 13, 309, 812, 2028, 1633, 369, 7964, 3430, 15, 50276, 2993, 369, 11485, 327, 253, 4481, 2505, 272, 13, 7827, 4455, 37007, 285, 703, 4455, 625, 2209, 1350, 264, 342, 617, 4481, 285, 984, 273, 436, 627, 497, 3237, 1309, 2825, 534, 1160, 352, 417, 30357, 387, 512, 15, 50276, 1231, 25394, 1016, 643, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 3543, 347, 604, 703, 2506, 626, 1928, 347, 604, 359, 1472, 275, 247, 2954, 672, 309, 1353, 598, 1060, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 2505, 347, 2223, 347, 309, 908, 1512, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 2374, 619, 990, 13, 309, 1353, 11926, 984, 247, 747, 5599, 3331, 556, 1705, 715, 617, 1495, 285, 703, 3133, 281, 320, 8133, 625, 673, 715, 5015, 281, 436, 5599, 685, 281, 479, 15, 50276, 42, 2183, 617, 309, 651, 1818, 285, 2717, 369, 13699, 275, 2426, 273, 247, 2740, 598, 390, 2712, 13, 359, 1097, 5821, 359, 971, 436, 281, 1390, 15, 50276, 6436, 13, 309, 476, 626, 17941, 436, 5471, 326, 1633, 310, 598, 285, 253, 625, 285, 625, 309, 1158, 670, 352, 352, 2789, 479, 625, 285, 625, 46197, 285, 23201, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 816, 878, 690, 2487, 3345, 4743, 1078, 309, 513, 2712, 390, 1333, 2712, 33384, 15, 309, 7777, 1053, 626, 971, 619, 2954, 281, 990, 342, 617, 13, 533, 342, 512, 253, 7871, 309, 1353, 2970, 13, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 22944, 949, 253, 16059, 323, 2607, 1078, 1633, 3076, 6569, 281, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 8497, 14, 2577, 19609, 369, 247, 34929, 1078, 309, 1313, 617, 15, 50276, 26383, 7688, 342, 1821, 285, 247, 3076, 598, 49575, 3977, 617, 281, 9239, 1821, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 285, 309, 369, 253, 806, 5599, 703, 15483, 275, 1107, 15, 50276, 37, 17290, 436, 556, 667, 17200, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 2820, 281, 1691, 512, 253, 5441, 562, 627, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 556, 644, 2505, 272, 1529, 637, 285, 556, 4455, 625, 6110, 275, 779, 685, 275, 479, 15, 50276, 3404, 752, 1127, 943, 309, 1067, 352, 572, 953, 1078, 309, 1611, 285, 3297, 281, 1048, 285, 990, 598, 2970, 8513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	485
t3_12m1du	relationships	26[f] who has never had children or married, dating 30 year old man who has divorced and 2 children. Part 2.	[Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here.	I want to give into him, but I keep having a bad feeling in the back of my head. He acts like he has changed, but it doesn't feel like love to me or anything else.	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Part 2. POST: [Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here. Two Word TL;DR:	Relationship doubts	[ 309, 971, 281, 1918, 715, 779, 13, 533, 309, 1978, 1907, 247, 3076, 5471, 275, 253, 896, 273, 619, 1481, 15, 754, 6993, 751, 344, 556, 4391, 13, 533, 352, 2506, 626, 1928, 751, 2389, 281, 479, 390, 2712, 2010, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	42	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 26[f] who has never had children or married, dating 30 year old man who has divorced and 2 children. Part 2. POST: [Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here. TL;DR: I want to give into him, but I keep having a bad feeling in the back of my head. He acts like he has changed, but it doesn't feel like love to me or anything else.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3436, 60, 71, 62, 665, 556, 1620, 574, 2151, 390, 7028, 13, 13597, 1884, 807, 1711, 637, 665, 556, 32806, 285, 374, 2151, 15, 3512, 374, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 544, 8116, 19192, 5218, 9, 754, 556, 644, 32806, 285, 556, 767, 2151, 15, 309, 1849, 1620, 7407, 667, 273, 1110, 15, 309, 671, 8968, 326, 352, 3936, 247, 2257, 281, 320, 629, 273, 247, 7154, 2021, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 1928, 326, 619, 8991, 3198, 403, 1146, 1313, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1900, 11298, 281, 521, 3237, 13, 533, 344, 1620, 23238, 7477, 15, 754, 671, 13052, 281, 564, 281, 11705, 15202, 13, 247, 2257, 13, 285, 556, 512, 273, 841, 2255, 665, 816, 12421, 1918, 779, 616, 3904, 13, 3966, 15, 309, 1353, 7514, 670, 581, 3331, 275, 1798, 273, 521, 15, 754, 2296, 703, 434, 816, 247, 3331, 13, 533, 344, 434, 8176, 281, 479, 1078, 326, 703, 556, 247, 30582, 285, 703, 556, 671, 2505, 479, 432, 521, 4481, 34452, 281, 320, 779, 1078, 15, 754, 1620, 858, 2712, 670, 352, 285, 1694, 10279, 387, 479, 323, 346, 1189, 37986, 670, 352, 3446, 2490, 187, 24881, 1841, 452, 4391, 2167, 15, 754, 434, 644, 6789, 1046, 1388, 285, 4645, 247, 2257, 273, 7756, 15, 309, 971, 281, 2965, 323, 779, 13, 533, 309, 1978, 1907, 326, 295, 29191, 5471, 275, 253, 896, 273, 619, 1481, 15, 309, 858, 2028, 779, 326, 359, 651, 1918, 436, 346, 46397, 3, 581, 1390, 1611, 285, 840, 816, 1339, 352, 512, 564, 604, 352, 1904, 626, 789, 15, 3932, 840, 627, 11210, 626, 644, 247, 2257, 273, 8615, 285, 627, 11210, 626, 644, 667, 3374, 342, 521, 346, 35686, 3858, 3446, 187, 187, 42, 971, 281, 1333, 309, 1557, 670, 779, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 9193, 253, 1072, 1039, 4404, 479, 15, 754, 556, 1160, 7756, 13, 533, 352, 1335, 816, 9193, 8921, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 835, 281, 564, 432, 1060, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 971, 281, 1918, 715, 779, 13, 533, 309, 1978, 1907, 247, 3076, 5471, 275, 253, 896, 273, 619, 1481, 15, 754, 6993, 751, 344, 556, 4391, 13, 533, 352, 2506, 626, 1928, 751, 2389, 281, 479, 390, 2712, 2010, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	395
t3_237df3	relationship_advice	[28/f] Boyfriend [28/m] has skeletons and baggage from childhood, he's acting out. Break-up or help him?	In short, i'm at a cross-roads. Bf of 2 years has a lot of personal stuff he needs to address. It's not stuff that will be fixed in one session of therapy. It's a lot of stuff. Until recently things have been fine. Now I'm finding that these issues are affecting how he acts in his relationship with me and others. Certain things that he has done recently have led to complete distrust, simply because he withholds information until I stumble upon it and bring "it" up. I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO????	BF of 2 years is in a bad place mentally & is acting out in ways that lead to distrust. Break up or give it another chance even though trust has been broken?	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Break-up or help him? POST: In short, i'm at a cross-roads. Bf of 2 years has a lot of personal stuff he needs to address. It's not stuff that will be fixed in one session of therapy. It's a lot of stuff. Until recently things have been fine. Now I'm finding that these issues are affecting how he acts in his relationship with me and others. Certain things that he has done recently have led to complete distrust, simply because he withholds information until I stumble upon it and bring "it" up. I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO???? 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I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO???? TL;DR: BF of 2 years is in a bad place mentally & is acting out in ways that lead to distrust. 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t3_4d7xfm	relationships	My BF (34m) had an online dating profile I (30f) didn't know about that was created after we started being exclusive. What do I do?! Help!!!	I (30f)found out my boyfriend (34m) of 4 months opened an online dating profile about two months after we because exclusive. I was devastated and am freaking out. He just told me he loves me a week ago and I feel the same. We get along amazingly. He is the first man in years I have felt a true honest connection with. We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!!	My (30f) BF (34m) had a secret online dating account. He days it was on a whim and he never used it. I don't know what to believe or what to do?	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What do I do?! Help!!! POST: I (30f)found out my boyfriend (34m) of 4 months opened an online dating profile about two months after we because exclusive. I was devastated and am freaking out. He just told me he loves me a week ago and I feel the same. We get along amazingly. He is the first man in years I have felt a true honest connection with. We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!! 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We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!! TL;DR: My (30f) BF (34m) had a secret online dating account. He days it was on a whim and he never used it. 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t3_o08yr

AskReddit

How do you get someone out of your head?

Hi, I'm 22, and I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. We recently moved together. We've always loved each other intensely. Problem, I recently started to have feelings for an other person (a friend). This person has had a boyfriend for now 3 years, and has absolutely no ideas. Those feelings were so strong, it was hard to hide them. After 2 months of me being distant and really sad, my girlfriend forced me to say what was bothering me. I'm not a good liar, and now she knows. We decided to give us a week alone, I went to my parents. Now, I'm completely lost. I keep on thinking about this person, and I hate that. I would like for those feelings to go away, to leave me alone. But I can't. What do I do? It's been 3 months now, and I'm just desperate.

long relationship; fell in love with an other person; admitted it; would like it to disappear, though it doesn't.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you get someone out of your head? POST: Hi, I'm 22, and I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. We recently moved together. We've always loved each other intensely. Problem, I recently started to have feelings for an other person (a friend). This person has had a boyfriend for now 3 years, and has absolutely no ideas. Those feelings were so strong, it was hard to hide them. After 2 months of me being distant and really sad, my girlfriend forced me to say what was bothering me. I'm not a good liar, and now she knows. We decided to give us a week alone, I went to my parents. Now, I'm completely lost. I keep on thinking about this person, and I hate that. I would like for those feelings to go away, to leave me alone. But I can't. What do I do? It's been 3 months now, and I'm just desperate. Two Word TL;DR:

Emotional conflict

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you get someone out of your head? POST: Hi, I'm 22, and I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. We recently moved together. We've always loved each other intensely. Problem, I recently started to have feelings for an other person (a friend). This person has had a boyfriend for now 3 years, and has absolutely no ideas. Those feelings were so strong, it was hard to hide them. After 2 months of me being distant and really sad, my girlfriend forced me to say what was bothering me. I'm not a good liar, and now she knows. We decided to give us a week alone, I went to my parents. Now, I'm completely lost. I keep on thinking about this person, and I hate that. I would like for those feelings to go away, to leave me alone. But I can't. What do I do? It's been 3 months now, and I'm just desperate. TL;DR: long relationship; fell in love with an other person; admitted it; would like it to disappear, though it doesn't.<|endoftext|>

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t3_15ijah

pettyrevenge

So, my mom woke me up with a loud TV.

She was in her living room, watching TV. This was at about 8:30 in the morning, and she was exercising. She turned the TV up extra loud to hear it over her excercycle, and woke me up. I went in there asking for her to turn it down. She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time. She disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go. If you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it.

Mom had the TV on loud and woke me up, didn't care that I'd respected audio levels in the house, so I countered with playing Gangnam Style on repeat with the bass thumping through the walls.

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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: So, my mom woke me up with a loud TV. POST: She was in her living room, watching TV. This was at about 8:30 in the morning, and she was exercising. She turned the TV up extra loud to hear it over her excercycle, and woke me up. I went in there asking for her to turn it down. She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time. She disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go. If you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it. Two Word TL;DR:

Sound retaliation

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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: So, my mom woke me up with a loud TV. POST: She was in her living room, watching TV. This was at about 8:30 in the morning, and she was exercising. She turned the TV up extra loud to hear it over her excercycle, and woke me up. I went in there asking for her to turn it down. She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time. She disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go. If you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it. TL;DR: Mom had the TV on loud and woke me up, didn't care that I'd respected audio levels in the house, so I countered with playing Gangnam Style on repeat with the bass thumping through the walls.<|endoftext|>

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359

t3_3r7dag

relationships

My girlfriend (20f) of two years cheated on me (20m) by kissing two guys at a Halloween party.

Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties.

My girlfriend kissed two guys at a Halloween party and liked it. We love each other but don't know what to do about it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (20f) of two years cheated on me (20m) by kissing two guys at a Halloween party. POST: Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties. Two Word TL;DR:

Relationship issues

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (20f) of two years cheated on me (20m) by kissing two guys at a Halloween party. POST: Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her. For Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know. We both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties. TL;DR: My girlfriend kissed two guys at a Halloween party and liked it. We love each other but don't know what to do about it.<|endoftext|>

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t3_2wghd6

running

One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help?

I'll try to keep this short! **Background** * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) **Current Problem** I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks!

I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. I'm fairly certain the problem isn't just that I'm completely out of shape.

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help? POST: I'll try to keep this short! **Background** * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) **Current Problem** I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks! Two Word TL;DR:

Post-pregnancy pain

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help? POST: I'll try to keep this short! **Background** * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) **Current Problem** I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks! TL;DR: I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. I'm fairly certain the problem isn't just that I'm completely out of shape.<|endoftext|>

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tifu

TIFU by getting scared for no reason and peeing on myself

(Pre-apology for formatting errors since i'm on my phone) Well, this was embarrassing and happened a few minutes ago. I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet...

got startled for no reason by a normal dude taking a shit and then pissed on my pants and shirt due to embarrassment and now I have to go shopping in my shame-soaked pants.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting scared for no reason and peeing on myself POST: (Pre-apology for formatting errors since i'm on my phone) Well, this was embarrassing and happened a few minutes ago. I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet... Two Word TL;DR:

Bathroom mishap

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting scared for no reason and peeing on myself POST: (Pre-apology for formatting errors since i'm on my phone) Well, this was embarrassing and happened a few minutes ago. I work at a small law office which shares a building with a few other businesses, a dentist's office and a military recruitment center. There is no drinking fountain in the building, so I bring a giant 2L water bottle which I sip on all day to keep hydrated and counteract all the copious amounts of alcohol i drink (after work, of course). Unfortunately, I have been cursed with a small bladder, and have to go pee sometimes 8-10 times a day. Luckily the back door of my office opens up right near the bathroom, so I can usually drain the main vein without embarrassing myself by being frequently seen there. As I was wrapping up work for the day, I realized I would have to pee one more time before leaving. It was slightly after 5, so when I walked to the bathroom, I wasn't expecting to see anyone in there (it is the kind of bathroom with a urinal and a stall). Fuckup begins when I open the door and there is a dude who had just finished shitting and was leaving the stall. For whatever reason this terrified me for a split second and I jumped and gasped. The guy was amused and chuckled and was like, did I scare you? I muttered something like "haha, yeah, a little bit" and I kept my head down, beelined to the urinal and unleashed the krakan. I was super embarrassed and very preoccupied so I didn't notice that the bottom part of my untucked, button-down shirt had slipped into my urine stream and was getting soaked. I didn't realize it until it began to sort of soak back onto my pant leg and getting my thigh wet. Well, fuck, i thought. This sucks. Then i remembered my fiancee was coming to pick me up straight from work so we could go grocery shopping. I cleaned up as best as i could, but its still very obvious. Luckily I have a P coat which is long enough to cover my pee-soaked netherregion, so i may get through this unscathed. My girl didn't notice yet... TL;DR: got startled for no reason by a normal dude taking a shit and then pissed on my pants and shirt due to embarrassment and now I have to go shopping in my shame-soaked pants.<|endoftext|>

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tifu

TIFU by staring too much.

Unlike most tifu's I have seen, this happened today. So, to start off I am 16 years old and have started my second semester as a sophomore, in one of my new classes (team sports to be specific) I noticed a very attractive and genuinely cute girl. I have never been on dates or been romantically involved with any girls before, because I have social anxiety and I am pretty chunky and I have confidence problems because of it. Any way, back to the story, I notice this cute girl and I can't help myself and I stare at her then I gain focus and I am focused back on the game. The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile.

Creeped out a girl by staring too long/ too much, thought she might like me, boyfriend or friend or what evs might confront me. I am a huge creep.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by staring too much. POST: Unlike most tifu's I have seen, this happened today. So, to start off I am 16 years old and have started my second semester as a sophomore, in one of my new classes (team sports to be specific) I noticed a very attractive and genuinely cute girl. I have never been on dates or been romantically involved with any girls before, because I have social anxiety and I am pretty chunky and I have confidence problems because of it. Any way, back to the story, I notice this cute girl and I can't help myself and I stare at her then I gain focus and I am focused back on the game. The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile. Two Word TL;DR:

Awkward Staring

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by staring too much. POST: Unlike most tifu's I have seen, this happened today. So, to start off I am 16 years old and have started my second semester as a sophomore, in one of my new classes (team sports to be specific) I noticed a very attractive and genuinely cute girl. I have never been on dates or been romantically involved with any girls before, because I have social anxiety and I am pretty chunky and I have confidence problems because of it. Any way, back to the story, I notice this cute girl and I can't help myself and I stare at her then I gain focus and I am focused back on the game. The day continues normally until I look back and her eyes avert away from me quickly, like when you get caught staring at someone and you act like you weren't staring. So, I thought "does she like ME?!?" thought it might have been a coincidence but I caught her stare a few more times. So after we dress back into our normal clothes I stare at her and question. whether or not she could like a person like me. She caught my gaze this time and she turns away and talks to some dude. The dude was pretty weird but there wasn't a day when she wasn't talking to him during class. Anyway the dude gives me a dirty look and the bell rings and I thought maybe she doesn't like me maybe she was creeped out and told her possible boyfriend that I was staring at her all class. So yeah saw her walking away with the dude and I saw her eyes on me again and they avert again. Don't know her name or anything so probably creeped out the poor girl and might get confronted by the dude, also I seem like a total creep... P.S. sorry for formatting on mobile. TL;DR: Creeped out a girl by staring too long/ too much, thought she might like me, boyfriend or friend or what evs might confront me. I am a huge creep.<|endoftext|>

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t3_mjs4m

AskReddit

Reddit, I think our family dog just consumed a significant amount of chocolate. What do I do?

Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do?

I think dog got into chocolate when I was out. My dad isn't concerned but I'm afraid she's going to keel over and die and I don't know what to do.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I think our family dog just consumed a significant amount of chocolate. What do I do? POST: Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do? Two Word TL;DR:

Chocolate ingestion

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I think our family dog just consumed a significant amount of chocolate. What do I do? POST: Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. However, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it. This is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more. FYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. Has anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do? TL;DR: I think dog got into chocolate when I was out. My dad isn't concerned but I'm afraid she's going to keel over and die and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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348

t3_4mcvz0

relationships

Me and my (former) best friend.

I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and 'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post.

I have lost a ~4-year-best friend of mine, who now chooses to ignore me, and I cannot even tell what I have done wrong.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and my (former) best friend. POST: I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post. Two Word TL;DR:

Friend lost

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and my (former) best friend. POST: I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years. I had only two friends in school, and'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually. In the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say "no", as always, without looking me in the eye. And now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right? Hell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now. Any help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post. TL;DR: I have lost a ~4-year-best friend of mine, who now chooses to ignore me, and I cannot even tell what I have done wrong.<|endoftext|>

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518

t3_2zu9jn

tifu

TIFU by trying to creatively announce my first pregnancy.

This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby. Within a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers.

I surprised announced to my husband I was pregnant in front of a bunch of a people we really didn't know. Made him and everyone else feel really awkward.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to creatively announce my first pregnancy. POST: This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby. Within a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers. Two Word TL;DR:

Botched announcement

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to creatively announce my first pregnancy. POST: This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby. Within a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said "I Got Knocked Up" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say "I am pregnant." Here's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, "I am pregnant." All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck. Finally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, "Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit." My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers. TL;DR: I surprised announced to my husband I was pregnant in front of a bunch of a people we really didn't know. Made him and everyone else feel really awkward.<|endoftext|>

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t3_1xh19y

running

Knee pain due to poor balance

I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT?

Ortho said my knee pain was because I balance like a toddler, cost of PT is too damn high. Can you recommend a DIY balance program?

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Knee pain due to poor balance POST: I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT? Two Word TL;DR:

Knee pain

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Knee pain due to poor balance POST: I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies. I went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and "hip stability" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep. So, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT? TL;DR: Ortho said my knee pain was because I balance like a toddler, cost of PT is too damn high. Can you recommend a DIY balance program?<|endoftext|>

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227

t3_33k2x7

relationships

I'm (18M) jealous of other guys flirting with my (18M) girlfriend on social media. Help?

My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective.

I'm a jealous boyfriend and I need help to understand how NOT to be jealous. I don't want the "Oh you should feel LUCKY guys want her!" FUCK THAT.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (18M) jealous of other guys flirting with my (18M) girlfriend on social media. Help? POST: My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective. Two Word TL;DR:

Relationship jealousy

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (18M) jealous of other guys flirting with my (18M) girlfriend on social media. Help? POST: My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the "friend" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! "You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me." I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective. TL;DR: I'm a jealous boyfriend and I need help to understand how NOT to be jealous. I don't want the "Oh you should feel LUCKY guys want her!" FUCK THAT. <|endoftext|>

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I [22 F] want to buy my bf [28 M] of 6 months a $500 very rare video game for his collection for his birthday/Christmas. Will a gift of this caliber scare him off/ be considered too much after being laid off from his game dev job?

My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn.

Foster kid boyfriend with Christmas birthday and video game collection. Is it too soon to get him a $500 game for his collection, especially after he has just been laid off from his game dev job?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] want to buy my bf [28 M] of 6 months a $500 very rare video game for his collection for his birthday/Christmas. Will a gift of this caliber scare him off/ be considered too much after being laid off from his game dev job? POST: My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn. Two Word TL;DR:

Gift dilemma

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] want to buy my bf [28 M] of 6 months a $500 very rare video game for his collection for his birthday/Christmas. Will a gift of this caliber scare him off/ be considered too much after being laid off from his game dev job? POST: My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. He spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible. He is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel. The cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet. I have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself? Any help would be great. I am torn. TL;DR: Foster kid boyfriend with Christmas birthday and video game collection. Is it too soon to get him a $500 game for his collection, especially after he has just been laid off from his game dev job?<|endoftext|>

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t3_2twbfz

relationships

I (16f) don't want my Boyfriend (16m) hanging out with his female friend anymore

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My boyfriend's close female friend and her boyfriend broke up, and now she's trying to talk to my boyfriend more than ever. I don't want them to, but I don't want to seem controlling or make my boyfriend upset.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16f) don't want my Boyfriend (16m) hanging out with his female friend anymore POST: My boyfriend's been very close friends with this girl for a few years, and him and I have been dating for a year and a couple months now. I've never had a problem with their friendship and I know that it's platonic, they've never done sexual stuff or dated or anything. And she had a boyfriend throughout out entire relationship, but they broke up last Thursday. Since then she has been trying to talk to my boyfriend more and I'm worried that she wants to do stuff with him. I've hung out with my boyfriend twice since and both times he got several texts from her and she hardly ever used to text him while we've hung out before. And yesterday evening I called him and he was talking to her on the phone. All of a sudden since her boyfriend and her broke up now she's constantly trying to talk to my boyfriend? I think she likes him and I don't want them hanging out anymore, when he said he was talking to her on the other line I told him he's not allowed hanging out with her anymore and he seemed angry at me for saying that. Since that I've apologized and we aren't fighting now but I think he still talks to her. How do you think I could get them to stop their friendship without "telling him what to do"? Do you think that she wants to date him? Or why is she so obsessed with him now that she's single? I'm so upset and I'm worried about what will happen if they hang out with eachother now. Two Word TL;DR:

Jealousy issues

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16f) don't want my Boyfriend (16m) hanging out with his female friend anymore POST: My boyfriend's been very close friends with this girl for a few years, and him and I have been dating for a year and a couple months now. I've never had a problem with their friendship and I know that it's platonic, they've never done sexual stuff or dated or anything. And she had a boyfriend throughout out entire relationship, but they broke up last Thursday. Since then she has been trying to talk to my boyfriend more and I'm worried that she wants to do stuff with him. I've hung out with my boyfriend twice since and both times he got several texts from her and she hardly ever used to text him while we've hung out before. And yesterday evening I called him and he was talking to her on the phone. All of a sudden since her boyfriend and her broke up now she's constantly trying to talk to my boyfriend? I think she likes him and I don't want them hanging out anymore, when he said he was talking to her on the other line I told him he's not allowed hanging out with her anymore and he seemed angry at me for saying that. Since that I've apologized and we aren't fighting now but I think he still talks to her. How do you think I could get them to stop their friendship without "telling him what to do"? Do you think that she wants to date him? Or why is she so obsessed with him now that she's single? I'm so upset and I'm worried about what will happen if they hang out with eachother now. TL;DR: My boyfriend's close female friend and her boyfriend broke up, and now she's trying to talk to my boyfriend more than ever. I don't want them to, but I don't want to seem controlling or make my boyfriend upset.<|endoftext|>

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My [[22m]] gf [[20]] of six months says things were going too fast and she's not capable of being with anyone right now.

A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. (sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated)

she broke up with her long time boyfriend to be with me, we had a really intense and happy relationship, but now she says she wants to be single

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [[22m]] gf [[20]] of six months says things were going too fast and she's not capable of being with anyone right now. POST: A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. (sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated) Two Word TL;DR:

Relationship confusion

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [[22m]] gf [[20]] of six months says things were going too fast and she's not capable of being with anyone right now. POST: A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her. Our beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that. Anyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though. What should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her. (sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated) TL;DR: she broke up with her long time boyfriend to be with me, we had a really intense and happy relationship, but now she says she wants to be single<|endoftext|>

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Me [22m] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1 and a half years, has been having communication and trust errors as of late

Everything in our relationship up until about a month ago was fantastic. We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. Last weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there.

My girlfriend has been texting another man and has seemed more interested in him than in me. At what point should I call it quits before I try and stay to long and end up getting hurt?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22m] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1 and a half years, has been having communication and trust errors as of late POST: Everything in our relationship up until about a month ago was fantastic. We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. Last weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there. Two Word TL;DR:

Communication issues

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22m] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1 and a half years, has been having communication and trust errors as of late POST: Everything in our relationship up until about a month ago was fantastic. We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. Last weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. On my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. I just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. Note-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there. TL;DR: My girlfriend has been texting another man and has seemed more interested in him than in me. At what point should I call it quits before I try and stay to long and end up getting hurt?<|endoftext|>

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485

t3_12m1du

relationships

26[f] who has never had children or married, dating 30 year old man who has divorced and 2 children. Part 2.

[Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here.

I want to give into him, but I keep having a bad feeling in the back of my head. He acts like he has changed, but it doesn't feel like love to me or anything else.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 26[f] who has never had children or married, dating 30 year old man who has divorced and 2 children. Part 2. POST: [Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here. Two Word TL;DR:

Relationship doubts

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 26[f] who has never had children or married, dating 30 year old man who has divorced and 2 children. Part 2. POST: [Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family. I don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for "over reacting about it". Recently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this "relationship" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his "female friends". I want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here. TL;DR: I want to give into him, but I keep having a bad feeling in the back of my head. He acts like he has changed, but it doesn't feel like love to me or anything else.<|endoftext|>

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395

t3_237df3

relationship_advice

[28/f] Boyfriend [28/m] has skeletons and baggage from childhood, he's acting out. Break-up or help him?

In short, i'm at a cross-roads. Bf of 2 years has a lot of personal stuff he needs to address. It's not stuff that will be fixed in one session of therapy. It's a lot of stuff. Until recently things have been fine. Now I'm finding that these issues are affecting how he acts in his relationship with me and others. Certain things that he has done recently have led to complete distrust, simply because he withholds information until I stumble upon it and bring "it" up. I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO????

BF of 2 years is in a bad place mentally & is acting out in ways that lead to distrust. Break up or give it another chance even though trust has been broken?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/f] Boyfriend [28/m] has skeletons and baggage from childhood, he's acting out. Break-up or help him? POST: In short, i'm at a cross-roads. Bf of 2 years has a lot of personal stuff he needs to address. It's not stuff that will be fixed in one session of therapy. It's a lot of stuff. Until recently things have been fine. Now I'm finding that these issues are affecting how he acts in his relationship with me and others. Certain things that he has done recently have led to complete distrust, simply because he withholds information until I stumble upon it and bring "it" up. I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO???? Two Word TL;DR:

Trust issues

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/f] Boyfriend [28/m] has skeletons and baggage from childhood, he's acting out. Break-up or help him? POST: In short, i'm at a cross-roads. Bf of 2 years has a lot of personal stuff he needs to address. It's not stuff that will be fixed in one session of therapy. It's a lot of stuff. Until recently things have been fine. Now I'm finding that these issues are affecting how he acts in his relationship with me and others. Certain things that he has done recently have led to complete distrust, simply because he withholds information until I stumble upon it and bring "it" up. I literally have to make a case before he confesses to "it." I dont know what to do. I don't necessarily think that mental health is a reason to break up IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PUT IN WORK. I do think a lack of trust is a reason to break up. BUT, when the actions that led to the lack of trust are bc of the mental state of the person I'm lost. WHAT DO I DO???? TL;DR: BF of 2 years is in a bad place mentally & is acting out in ways that lead to distrust. Break up or give it another chance even though trust has been broken?<|endoftext|>

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My BF (34m) had an online dating profile I (30f) didn't know about that was created after we started being exclusive. What do I do?! Help!!!

I (30f)found out my boyfriend (34m) of 4 months opened an online dating profile about two months after we because exclusive. I was devastated and am freaking out. He just told me he loves me a week ago and I feel the same. We get along amazingly. He is the first man in years I have felt a true honest connection with. We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!!

My (30f) BF (34m) had a secret online dating account. He days it was on a whim and he never used it. I don't know what to believe or what to do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My BF (34m) had an online dating profile I (30f) didn't know about that was created after we started being exclusive. What do I do?! Help!!! POST: I (30f)found out my boyfriend (34m) of 4 months opened an online dating profile about two months after we because exclusive. I was devastated and am freaking out. He just told me he loves me a week ago and I feel the same. We get along amazingly. He is the first man in years I have felt a true honest connection with. We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!! Two Word TL;DR:

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My BF (34m) had an online dating profile I (30f) didn't know about that was created after we started being exclusive. What do I do?! Help!!! POST: I (30f)found out my boyfriend (34m) of 4 months opened an online dating profile about two months after we because exclusive. I was devastated and am freaking out. He just told me he loves me a week ago and I feel the same. We get along amazingly. He is the first man in years I have felt a true honest connection with. We made conscious mutual decision to be together exclusively and detailed all online accounts etc. He suggested em make it fb official etc. He is never super protective Iver his phone. He is under a lot of stress with work and an ill parent. Thins moved pretty quick with us. He has met all my family etc. Hr is divorced and has been cheated on but (says) he has never chested. I confronted him and he said he dosent use the account. He has never really engaged in it but just browsed. He knew it was wrong and stored but never deleted it. He also said that he was watching porn and then wants to browse POF because that is what he had done previously. He told me I'm very caring and amazing and done nothing wrong. He wants to be with me and loves me. He wants this to work. He is deeply sorry and didn't want to hurt me. There also had been a lack of sex in the relationship which he states is due to stress I'm town. Ita still a new fresh relationship and I've been told when someone shows you are the first time to believe them. But then again he has been through alot and crests it a couple months ago. I don't knoe how to feel or what to do or how to handle it. Please help!!! TL;DR: My (30f) BF (34m) had a secret online dating account. He days it was on a whim and he never used it. I don't know what to believe or what to do?<|endoftext|>

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